Thursday, July 31, 2014
MEMO FROM NARA...
One of the things
I could understand is that they like to tell others that how important they are
and also how much he/she knows about others – good or bad. Revealing the life
history of other people in an interesting fashion is of course a peculiar talent.
Not all can do it, but some are experts. If they talk about people of equal
standard we can understand but if they are indifferent category – for example,
a businessman, a medical doctor, a politician, a lawyer – the points of view
expressed may not be agreeable at all, because those people have a different
kind of life-style than the one who discuss about them.
In fact, we don’t
see people as they are, but we see them as we are. Therefore the opinions
expressed are not at all correct. If a businessman talks about another
businessman it is ok. But if a teacher talks about a businessman, it is absurd.
We all talk about the lavish life style of politicians without knowing the
characters of politicians. There are simple politicians as well as complex
politicians whose life style is beyond our imagination. Criticizing such
politicians in our angle is in fact absurd according to me.
Our thinking is
limited to our life style alone. Politicians have big cars and dozens of people
around them always. A simple citizen wonders why the politicians need such big
cars and bodyguards and he tries to judge the politicians in his level of
living. Therefore I feel that we have no business to talk bad about others but
we have the right to talk about ourselves – good or bad.
While talking about oneself, one reveals all about his personal life,
family matters and even the life secrets in order to get a prestige.
Intelligent people hear calmly without revealing their own life secrets.
Sharing one’s limited information to others always keeps one’s self-respect.
Without understanding this simple principle of life many of us reveal more and
get into trouble. People vary in their character, so they have to learn from
their experience. No one can advise them except indicating the implications of
talking too much to gain the attention of others.
How far is it good? I do not know!
FASTING
An important aspect of fasting is that it
inculcates the quality of introspection. Introspection is the ability to
undertake self-assessment and self-correction. It is very important for every
man and woman and fasting seeks to instil this ability of introspection in
every individual. Fasting apparently is a peaceful deed but in terms of effect
it is a part of social behaviour. It helps an individual become a good member
of society. Another aspect of fasting is to develop the ability to share for
common good. When you fast you are able to experience the problems of those who
live in poverty. This experience of fasting inculcates the spirit of
philanthropy in the one who is fasting. – Rajat
Malhotra.
SYMPTOMS OF SELF-ESTEEM
v
Feelings of inadequacy, inferiority,
or incompetence.
v
Fear, anxiety, lack of confidence, and
an unwillingness to try new things.
v
Reluctance to share opinions, ideas,
perceptions, or feelings.
v
Fear of failure, rejection, criticism,
or abandonment.
v
Self-doubt about our abilities,
worthiness or lovability.
v
Feelings of not fitting in, of being
innately flawed.
v
Inability to know who and when to
trust.
v
Frequent episodes of “self-esteem
attacks” and depression.
v
Under achieving or over achieving.
v
Poor boundaries, controlling
behaviour, people-pleasing
FIND THE RIGHT BALANCE
v Choose your life
pattern yourself. Don’t be governed by others.
v Harness habits and
skills that allow you to make your own rules in this rat race.
v Avoid talking work
over lunch and dinner.
v Switch off your mobile
on Saturdays and Sundays, keep weekends for yourself. Don’t worry about being
left behind.
v Gradually reduce work
hours. This does not mean compromising on the quality of work.
v Refuse to feel guilty
when you are not working.
v Develop skill sets and
an attitude that allows you to finish work within office hours. Don’t stay back
just because your colleagues are doing so.
JUST TO LAUGH...
Husband calls up his wife. Honey, I was driving to Susan’s place and had
a sudden puncture. The car skidded and rolled over several feet. I am now in
hospital with a broken arm, several broken ribs, a shattered knee cap and severe
concussion.
Wife: Who is Susan?
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“No woman can keep a secret,” said one man at a party.
A woman guest answered huffily, “Well, I have kept my age a secret since
I was 21.”
“You’ll let it out some day,” the man insisted.
“Ha,” said the lady. “When a woman has kept a secret for 27 years, she
can keep it for ever.”
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A jealous husband hired a private detective to spy on his wife, and get
a video of her activities. A week later, they sat down together to watch the
video. He sees his wife meeting a man in a park, relaxing at a café, dancing in
a dimly-lit night club, laughing and enjoying.
“I can’t believe this,” the distraught husband said.
“Why not? It’s on the screen,” said the detective.
The husband replied, “I can’t believe my wife could be so much fun.”
GENOME EDITING
A genetic disease has been cured in
living, adult animals for the first time using a revolutionary genome editing
technique that can make the smallest changes to the vast data base of the DNA
molecule with pinpoint accuracy. Scientists have used the genome editing
technology to cure adult lab. Mice of an inherited liver disease by correcting
a single “letter” of the genetic alphabet which has been mutated in a vital
gene involved in liver metabolism. A similar mutation in the same gene causes
the equivalent inherited liver disease in humans – and the successful repair of
the genetic defect in lab. Mice raise hopes that the first clinical trials on
patients could begin within a few years. The success is the latest achievement
in the field of genome editing. This has been transformed by the discovery of crispr, a technology that allows
scientists to make almost any DNA changes at precisely defined points on the
chromosomes of animals or plants crispr –
pronounced “crisper” – was initially
discovered in 1987 as an immune defence used by bacteria against invading
viruses. It is powerful genome editing potential in higher animals, including
humans, was only fully realized in 2012 and 2013 when scientists showed that it
can be combined with a DNA – sniping enzyme called Cas9 and used to edit the
human genome. Since then there has been an explosion of interest in the technology
because it is such a simple method of changing the individual letters of the
human genome – the 3 billion “base pairs” of the DNA molecule – with an
accuracy equivalent to correcting a single misspelt word in a 23-volume
encyclopaedia.
STOICISM
STOICISM is a series of mental techniques and ways of life
that allow you to decrease and then virtually eliminate all negative emotions
such as anger, fear, anxiety and dissatisfaction, while simultaneously building
up a tide of pure joy inside you jump around and boogie at unexpected moments,
and occasionally shout out “ahh, Yeah!!” as discreetly as possible to yourself
when the joy overflows.
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