Friday, July 31, 2015
MEMO FROM NARA...
Everyone talks about peace because
everyone wants it badly. We want to live in harmony with others. Peace keeps us
socially intact and gives us a happy life. Peace in a society or in a nation
helps the improvement of the society or nation. So, all are interested in
keeping the peace at any cost. But unfortunately peace in society is disturbed
at times by differences in opinion and diversity in culture.
Similarly nations in the world like to
be peaceful in order to improve the lifestyle of peoples and country’s infrastructure.
But border issues, religious intolerance, economic imbalances, inadequate
national resources create disturbances. Treaties are being signed among nations
whenever the leaders of the nations meet. They talk much about peaceful
coexistence. But somehow differences create difficulties. Sometimes fighting
between countries also takes place.
Peace of mind is considered as one of
the virtues man wants in life. Peace of mind for every individual helps to
attain happiness and good health. But how to achieve peace? Practice the mind
to keep in peace. It has lot of effects on the body and mind. On the other
hand, peacelessness disturbs our mind. It affects our thinking, our daily
activities and work. Anger and anxiety are created in the peaceless mind!
Normal life is affected. People suffer just because they do not have peace!
Countries in the world often do not
live in peace. So they thought of an organization to keep peace in the world.
Thus they created the United Nations in 1948. All the countries of the world
are members – rich and the poor nations. In general, peace is disturbed by
natural calamities, man-made civil wars, terrorism, religious fighting, racial
differences, border disputes etc. So, sometimes peace is to be kept by force.
The United Nations has a wing for peace keeping force sent out to countries
where the above mentioned
calamities occur. In fact, these forces are sent by various member countries.
Every year May 29 is observed as
International Day for Peace Keeping by the United Nations. Peace in the world
is achieved by conciliation and understanding. Talks across the table often
fail because of the adamant nature of nations. Lots of lives are lost because
of such adamant attitude. No one cares about it! Peace makers make rules and
resolutions to create an environment of harmony and friendship. Peace keepers
physically involve themselves to keep peace. They take risk. Our world is
swinging between
peace and peacelessness. Avoiding conflicts is essential. We need to forget the
differences among human beings living in different countries. People of a
country may not have as much hatred towards the people of another country as
the rulers of the country. Because of their adamant tendencies peace is
disturbed and
countries are put to difficulty. “Peace
cannot be kept by force; it can only be achieved by understanding” said Alfred
Einstein. Let the leaders of every country learn this and keep their citizens
happy.
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LEARN SOMETHING NEW...
The need to learn
something doesn’t stop when we stop going to school. Learning for the sake of
learning is what makes us human and what allows us to continue to grow and
evolve into ourselves.
A world of interesting
information and knowledge awaits and it has never been easier to learn
something new. You can start to enhance your life by watching a Ted talk,
listening to a podcast or subscribe to feeds like Did you know? and Tell Me
Why? Whatever it is, learn something new today.
Learning makes us
confident, feeds our creative soul and broadens our perspective. It doesn’t
have to be a formal process; you can start by devoting just ten minutes a day
to learning something new.
JUST TO LAUGH...
Early
one morning, a mother went into wake up her son.
“Wake up son. It’s time
to go to school!”“But mom, I don’t want to go.”
“Give me two reasons why?”
“Well the kids hate me, and the teachers hate me too!”
“That’s no reason, come on now and get ready.”
“Give me two reasons why I should go to school?”
“Well, for one, you’re 52 years old. And for another, you’re the principal.”
Raju
and his wife were going to the city in an auto. When the
driver adjusted the mirror, Raju shouted “you are trying to see my wife. Come
and sit at the back, I will drive the auto.
BREATHE...
Deep and purposeful
breathing is our best tool against anxiety, frustration and overall negative
feelings. When you start to feel tension in your neck or butterflies in your
stomach, take a minute and breathe deeply. Close your eyes and focus on your
breath. Breathe in deeply through your nose and visualize your entire body
filling up with your breath. Then slowly exhale through your mouth and watch
the breathe leave. Do this five times and feel the incredibly relaxing effects
it has on your body and mind.
PERSISTENCE AND PATIENCE
Before you give up, think about
how unfortunate it would be if the results you have worked to achieve required
just a tiny dose of additional effort. How disheartening would it be if the
train you’ve been waiting for arrived five minutes after you walked out of station?
Not only does success require diligent effort, it requires persistence and
patience. Rest when you are tired, but don’t quit. You never know what’s just
around the corner. It could be everything you have been working for, or it
might be just another mile marker on your journey. Either way, when you keep
putting one foot in front of the other, one day the next step you take will be
the one that carries you to your goal.
QUALITIES OF AN ATTRACTIVE PERSONALITY
Someone
with an attractive personality:
§ Is warm and
friendly towards others.
§ Is open and
real.
§ Knows their
own strengths and weaknesses – and neither boasts nor put themselves down.
§ Looks for
the good in every situation and is generally positive and optimistic.
§ Doesn’t
gloat when things go wrong for others.
§ Is secure
and has a healthy self-esteem, is not self-centred and narcissistic.
§ Is not
highly critical or argumentative.
§ Is not
possessive and jealous in relationship.
§ Makes time
for the people they care about.
Enjoy the little things!
Meet you next month – September, 2015
Professor A. Narayanan, Ph. D., FISPP
Ph : 0422 4393017 Mobile : 098422 42301
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