Sunday, October 30, 2016
MEMO FROM NARA
"Leaders may come and go, the challenge is to
play our part in inventing a future that is stable, predictable and
prosperous.” This sentence was written in an article by the former Foreign
Minister of Pakistan Ms. Hina Rabbani Khar. I like it because of its practical
sense. In every democratic country leaders may come and go. People elect them.
The elected leaders govern the country for a specified period. The governance
is limited to policies for economic growth, trade, foreign relations, defence
etc.
How best the
leaders who govern the country taking into account the above policies? The
challenge is not easy but not difficult too. Every one of us has something to
contribute. One may be a teacher, scientist, doctor, engineer, trader,
entrepreneur, farmer, driver, labourer or a watch man. All of them have to
perform their duty, the challenge. That becomes the future. By doing our duty
properly we invent our future. Doing the duty really helps the nation to move
forward and progress. If we do a bad job, the country cannot go forward in the
right path. Therefore, it is obvious that the people have to involve in the
nation building. Even the construction workers who construct multi-storied
apartment complexes, over-bridges, dams and canals are shaping our future that
is stable and predictable. They are the people who construct a prosperous
country. Similarly the people who clean our streets and collect the trash every
day are responsible for keeping the cities clean. So also the doctors who treat
millions of people everyday in hospitals are also provide a stable, healthy and
prosperous population. Everyone is important in a country for inventing the
future which is stable, predictable and prosperous.
Leaders
cannot do all the things that make the country prosperous. They are also important
to play their part in governing the country by providing safety and security to
all people. They should be responsible to create an atmosphere of peace and
tranquillity. They should bring happiness in the lives of people. Then only
ordinary people can invent extraordinary things for a prosperous future. The
young people who look for bright future as the old aspire for the youth. So it
is in everyone’s hand to create the necessary things for a comfortable future.
Hard work-culture
certainly benefits the nation’s progress. No political leader can deny that.
Leaders should understand this simple principle and work hard for the country
and country men and women. People look for such leaders not ‘dadas’ with scores of ‘goondas’ around them. How can you preserve
the culture of a country and work for its future if the leaders have personal
ambition of accumulating personal wealth for them and their kiths and kin? To
have better days ahead, leaders as well as the people should face the challenge
of inventing a prosperous future for our next generation.
LEISURE
Leisure is time off the books, off the job, off the clock. If
we save time, we commonly believe we
are saving it for our leisure. We know that leisure is really a state of mind,
but no dictionary can define it without reference to passing time. It is
unrestricted time, unemployed time, unoccupied time. Or is it? Unoccupied time
is vanishing. The leisure industries (an oxymoron maybe, but no contradiction)
fill time, as groundwater fills a sinkhole. The very variety of experience
attacks our leisure as it attempts to satiate us. We work for our amusement.
SELF-LIMITING BELIEFS
Self-limiting
beliefs are beliefs that are NOT true ... but they hold you back nonetheless.
For example, you may tell yourself that you'll never achieve phenomenal success
because you don't have enough education. Or you're the wrong age, race, or
gender. You may tell yourself you'll never get ahead because of problems you're
having with your family or current work relationships. Or you don't have any
money, connections, or opportunities in your field. All of those things may be
troublesome, but they do not prohibit you from achieving success. There are
hundreds of thousands of people who have been in the same situation as you ...
with the same problems you're having ... who accomplished great things anyway.
The only thing
that can stop you is YOU and your self-limiting beliefs. As psychologist Dr.
William James of Harvard University pointed out, your beliefs create your
situation ... because you always act in a manner consistent with your innermost
beliefs. If you belief you are incapable of success, you'll do a number of things
to make sure you don't succeed. But if you believe you are capable of
accomplishing good things, you will walk and talk and act like it, and your
beliefs will come to life.So take a moment to identify some of your
self-limiting beliefs. What beliefs do you have that are holding you back?
Think about them. Remember, most of your self-limiting beliefs have no basis
whatsoever in fact. They are based on information and ideas that you accepted
as true, sometimes in early childhood, and to the degree you believe them, they
are holding you back.
For
instance, many people believe "I don't deserve good things. I'm not
entitled to success, no matter how hard I work." Perhaps they were told by
a parent, when they were young that "Don't get so big headed about your accomplishment
... It wasn't that big of a deal ... or ... Other folks have accomplished
more."
The fact is you
deserve every good thing you are capable of acquiring as the result of using your talents
in a fair and honest way.
READING AT EVERY STAGE OF LIFE
Between the ages of twenty and forty we
are engaged in the process of discovering who we are, which involves learning
the difference between accidental limitations which it is our study to outgrow
and the necessary limitations of our nature beyond which we cannot trespass
with impunity. Few of us can learn this without making mistakes, without trying
to become a little more of a universal man than we are permitted to be. It is
during this period that a writer can most easily be led astray by another
writer or by some ideology When someone between twenty and forty says, apropos
of a work of art, “I know what I like,” he is really saying “I have no taste of
my own but accept the taste of my cultural milieu,” because between twenty and
forty, the surest sign that a man has genuine taste of his own is that he is
uncertain of it. After forty, if we have not lost our authentic selves
altogether, pleasure can again become what it was when we were children, the
proper guide to what we should read.
- W. H. AUDEN
JUST TO LAUGH
The
doctor explained to his patient that she suffered
from cervicitis or inflammation of
the cervix. Concerned, she demanded that he test her husband for it too. The
doctor assured her, “I’m positive your husband does not have cervicitis.” She shot back, “How do you
know? You haven’t examined him yet.
My
patient announced she had good news and bad. “The
medicine for my earache worked,” she said. “What is the bad news?” I asked. “It
tasted awful.” Since she was feeling better, I didn’t have the heart to tell
her they’re called ear drops for a reason.
The
day after I had surgery on my leg, a nurse came
into my hospital room with a box in her hand, “ Are you ready for this?” “What
is it?” I asked. “Fleet enema. Didn’t
your doctor tell you about it?” “No.” She rechecked the orders, “Whoa!” she
bellowed. “That didn’t say Fleet enema.
It said feet elevated!”
In a way we are slaves to our habits!
Meet you next month –December, 2016
Professor A. Narayanan, Ph. D., FISPP
E-mail: arumugakannu@gmail.com
Ph : 0422 4393017 Mobile : 098422 42301
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