1. Take responsibility for everything you do, think, and feel. Always take responsibility for solutions to your problems. Taking responsibility only for solutions (rather than blame for causes) gives you power.
2. Focus on what you can control – your ability to improve, appreciate, connect or protect – rather than what you cannot control, such as the opinions and behavior of your spouse.
3. Think in terms of solutions rather than problems. Be flexible, think multiple solutions – there’s almost always more than one.
4. Realize genuine confidence – if you make a mistake, you can fix it.
5. Step back and see things in wider contexts, observing the complexity of issues.
2. Focus on what you can control – your ability to improve, appreciate, connect or protect – rather than what you cannot control, such as the opinions and behavior of your spouse.
3. Think in terms of solutions rather than problems. Be flexible, think multiple solutions – there’s almost always more than one.
4. Realize genuine confidence – if you make a mistake, you can fix it.
5. Step back and see things in wider contexts, observing the complexity of issues.
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